To excel in the dating game, it is important to be guided by the player and there is nothing better than dating Dr. Alex Hitchens, in short, ‘Hitch’. So we take his word as gospel when he said that ‘Without deception and without play there is no girl’. Here are some tips from his movie ‘Hitch’ to help you see the forest through the sleaze.
Principle 1: No woman wakes up saying God, I hope I don’t get carried away today.
There was no species after bacteria on the planet that did not require the admiration of other species. Women are at the top of this ladder, so they not only want it, but also everything. Did I say that women rank high on the vanity chart (don’t tell your prospect this)?
If she tells you that she’s having a hard time or that she needs personal space or Hitch’s personal favorite, I’m really in my career right now. What he really meant was get me off now or try harder, stupid. Which one is up to you to decide?
Principle 2: 90% of what you say does not come out of your mouth.
Body language plays a big role initially, so try to get better at it. In fact, 60% of all human communication is body language and 30% is your tone, so basically 90% of what you say doesn’t come out of your mouth. People keep preparing and worrying about the 10% while neglecting the remaining 90%, which plays an important role in securing the first date. Work on the 90% and let the 10% be served on the first date.
Main 3: Beautiful doesn’t know what she wants until she sees it.
Well, this is true for all of us, but more so for those beautiful busty women who until now spend all their faculties building those curves as elegant as an F1 track. Testimony of that asks Christian Kerembu or Celine Dion. Choose who you prefer.
Principle 4: Whatever you are, you have something to offer her that no other man can.
The most common mistake most men make is trying to be someone else to impress the women of their dreams. Most fail without guessing, so try to be what you are. You can’t use what you don’t have, so if you’re shy, be shy.
He may not want the whole truth, but he does want to see the real you. You may not want to see it all at once, but you do want to see it. So be yourself as she told you yes when she could have said no.
Principle 5: Give space and keep a vision
On the first date, the key is to stay back and give her plenty of room. If you stop on a photo, keep going but keep your vision. Domestic dreams in private time when you are with her, to be with her. Women respond when you respond to them. That’s why when she speaks just listen to her because when your turn comes you’ll have better things to say than I like your mouth. Please, she stop imagining how she looks naked.
So get off the couch now and try some of these out at the club tonight and have some fun.