“Hey, look quickly, look at that guy over there” let’s face the fact that these are the stereotypical comments we tend to pass whenever we come across a person like that who’s in our midst, but chances are we’ll try to isolate this person just because he’s a little bit different, can you justify this? Let’s start with the basics. A gay is generally a person who is sexually attracted to the same sex, can be approached as homosexual. Today we will examine the intricacies of this, as well as the reasons and controversies associated with it. Intensive research has been carried out to find the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social and cultural influences on sexual orientation, but no finding has been able to prove that these feelings that arise within an individual are determined by a specific factor.
One of the controversies proclaims that less gender socialization in early childhood or preadolescence may ultimately result in a romantic same-sex preference. Few reports also state that higher rates of fetal loss, low birth weight, and physical deformity can cause developmental arrest. Ultimately, it may result in driving these individuals towards homosexuality. If we look deeper, there are a variety of psychological reasons that can eventually lead an individual to become homosexual. We will watch them carefully. The first is unhealthy childhood relationships with women. Who says only men can hurt girls? Girls in multiple ways do the same with any existing man in their environment. If we consider women, it includes mothers, sisters, female relatives and other members of the extended family. Criticizing one for his weaknesses, lowering his morale can cause lasting feelings of shame, insecurity and lack of self-confidence, which is mandatory for one’s survival in this world of dog eat dog.
Feminize the man, pass embarrassing comments and try to sexualize him by commenting and making fun of his body shape. It may seem like a joke but it has disastrous effects causing the male to distance himself from females rejecting them or developing hatred towards them, on the contrary there are many possibilities that males feel threatened by women and prefer to establish a relationship with a woman. same sex as a safer option by making him homosexual. In childhood, after encountering unhealthy relationships with women, a man’s concept of women may be distorted and thus distanced and all women perceived as dominant, powerful, controlling and manipulative.
Due to these experiences, a man can feel dominated, inferior and develop complexes. Therefore, feeling unable to enter into a relationship with a woman, therefore, the individual finds it better to be with a partner of the same sex. The consequences are such that one begins to feel incongruous with his own gender, as he perceives himself as inappropriate and ineffective. Constant accusations of being called feminine can cause the unconscious mind to be attracted to men. Sexual abuse by men and early exposure to pornography can also help intensify homosexuality. Have you ever been a victim of child abuse or abuse? There are chances that you are prone to this. As we are living in the 21st century there are many cultural influences that have greatly affected the current generations. The culture of homosexuality is something that arouses curiosity and the desire to explore new paths. Pro-gay sex education and also depictions of homosexuality as casual behavior have led a person to choose a ‘gay’ life.
Is it right or wrong? Acceptable or unacceptable? We are nobody to judge this. All we can do is treat all people with equality and respect. We can not?