The male orgasm, like in cards, never lets you know which hand will be dealt next. “It’s all in the cards,” as they say, “until you go to bed.” You know what I’m talking about. You stop panting after an orgasm, you catch your breath a bit, and your lover says, “Wow! What was that all about?”
“Gee, I don’t know.” You shake and try to remember before your orgasm. “It just came out of nowhere! My fingertips still tingle. It seemed like it would never end.” You shiver a little. “I’m still not sure she has, yet.”
There are face cards and there are number cards. Some male orgasms I would say qualify as a face card. The colors and design really stand out and tend to put those male sexual sensations in a category of their own.
As a writer, student of male sexuality, and everyday man, I resist putting names and labels to something as dynamic, mysterious, and fantastic as a man’s orgasm. But let’s face it, our orgasms come in a mixed bag and we can learn a lot about ourselves, our lovemaking, and our sexual growth if we just pay a little more attention to the male sexual experience instead of “just enjoying one.”
The full body male orgasm
This is the big kahuna of a guy’s orgasm. The full body male orgasm is probably the model the guy above experienced. This is the type where you fall in love instead of cheering. He has probably already come and you are enjoying the long journey of kisses, caresses and deep and slow thrusts that last a long time. You are very relaxed, yet incredibly aroused and surprisingly able to delay ejaculation. This is because he held back at the start of intercourse and his stimulation and focus were not just on his penis. He was spread out. Now, it seems that you can make love forever. And, you probably can.
This orgasm has an epicenter not necessarily in your snout. It could be anywhere: your belly, your butt, your thighs. You won’t know until it arrives. When the full body orgasm comes, it doesn’t seem to start with ejaculation, but with a deep internal moan that increases in amplitude and rolls like an earthquake reaching your extremities. You can start subsidizing a little, but don’t stop because there’s always more with this guy.
Male G Spot Orgasm
The male G-spot orgasm is sometimes called a prostate orgasm because the male G-spot is located in the prostate gland. If you slip a lubricated finger into your rectum. You can feel the prostate just as well as his sense of wonder. It is only an inch or two towards your forehead. Many men use anal toys for both lovemaking and masturbation to experience a male G-spot orgasm.
A male G-spot orgasm is spicy yet deep like a rich red wine. For women, the sexual experience is primarily internal, and we think of the male sexual experience as only external. With a G-spot orgasm, you experience that internal sensation that is not fully obtained through penile stimulation. A nice bonus to the G-spot orgasm is that it can easily be multiples that come and go like waves on the seashore.
ejaculatory orgasm
An ejaculatory orgasm is reliable. Men can invoke an ejaculatory orgasm from a few seconds to a few minutes. It’s the kind of orgasm that emanates only from your penis or at most your groin and not much beyond. Most of the pleasure you enjoy from an ejaculatory orgasm comes from the ejaculatory sensation you feel from the semen you expel from your penis. And the more, the better.
non ejaculatory orgasm
Why wouldn’t I want to ejaculate? Because an orgasm without ejaculation allows you the privilege of having an orgasm, making love, masturbating or whatever else you like to do for as long as you want. Most men experience a period of time after ejaculation when they don’t really feel like having sex that much. If you delay your ejaculation until later or until tomorrow, you enjoy an orgasm without ejaculation.
The longer you make love, extend your focus and relax your muscles, the more your orgasmic response will develop. You first feel the flutter in your belly or groin as you hang on the edge of ejaculation, but ease it and delay it, the sensations come more frequently and more intensely until you can say they are definitely orgasms, less intense, but orgasms. on the edge like a hawk on the wind until you decide you’ve had enough.
contemplative orgasm
You find yourself lost in orgasm in a place much bigger than you. The contemplative orgasm is spiritual. You can’t define it so much by how it feels as you define it by where your focus is in the experience. If your focus is on something larger than a physical experience and your desire to connect with someone outside of yourself, you are approaching contemplative orgasm territory. Unfortunately, many of us bluntly divide our spiritual life from our sexual life, but when you allow God to be present in your sexuality, you know that orgasm is indeed spiritual.
male multiple orgasm
Male multiple orgasms occur in almost all of the above experiences except possibly the ejaculatory orgasm. It’s like going to the dance. If you are going to dance all the dances, you will want to stay all night. A multiple orgasm is not likely to happen to you if you quit too soon. You have to give it time, focus and allow yourself to fall into it. Like the dance, each one gets more fun.