I know that when it comes to premature ejaculation, most men are looking for a way to last longer, but truth be told, women don’t necessarily need that. If you’re looking for cures for premature ejaculation, maybe you should look at the other tools in your toolbox. You see, the penis is not the only tool that can make her tremble with orgasmic pleasures. Let’s take a look at the other tools…
The key to great sex is in the foreplay!
When it comes to fully satisfying a woman, some men think they need to last 20 minutes with their penis when the reality is that if they were to focus on effective and stimulating foreplay, they would only need to last around 5 minutes. I’m not kidding. It is not necessary that the penis alone stimulates her lover to orgasm. Proper foreplay takes advantage of her emotional sexual needs and believe it or not, her hugs and kisses really turn her on.
Do you know how to use your tongue?
You have heard the saying: “The tongue is mightier than the sword.” Well, here’s another one, “The tongue is more powerful than the penis.” When you learn to master the art of cunninlingus (stimulating her clitoris with your tongue) she’ll consider you a sex god! The secret is to start around the neck and shoulders with soft kisses and licks and then slowly work your way down the body until you reach the clitoris. Spend plenty of time addressing her other “hot spots” and then the clitoris will be the icing on the cake.
The proper technique on the clitoris
Once you get to the clitoris, don’t lick it like a Saint Bernard licks its master. Be soft and gentle and use a “flat” tongue and use slow, wide circular motions. While using your tongue on the clitoris, use one hand on one breast and the fingers of the other hand should play with the openings of the vagina and anus. Be careful not to penetrate. Simply rubbing the openings is very stimulating.
You’ll know when she’s getting really excited and close to an orgasm, trust me. Once you feel yourself getting really excited, start using shorter circular motions and faster speed with your tongue. Now find the “G-Spot” about 2-3 inches inside your vagina with your first 2 fingers while using them in a thrusting motion. She continues this until she begs him to stop and enter her with her penis or she experiences an orgasm. Either way she’s going to have an orgasm and you’ve done your job.
Bottom line
The bottom line is that if you master the use of your other tools, you’ll probably stop looking for premature ejaculation cures. Whether it’s your penis or your tongue, she’ll experience supercharged orgasms and your ability to last just a few minutes becomes less of an issue in her eyes. This gives you time to get her hands on a proven training manual and put an end to her premature ejaculation by using proven exercises and techniques. She just takes action! Nothing will change until you do!