He was a caveman at first, and all this caveman knew about finding and dating attractive women was through pillaging and looting (what’s changed, honestly?).
Regardless of the nonverbal communication signals the woman sent him, this caveman was never able to understand it, and to this day those traits have been passed down from generation to generation, with only a lucky few being able to read. through all the mess of male confusion and testosterone to realize that the sexy woman in the little red number sitting across from him is talking to him a lot through his body language.
But what’s a man, with whatever shred of masculinity he still has left, to do under these circumstances if he’s going to go home with his arms full of… you get the picture?
There is no doubt that men find women very complicated… judging by all the self-help dating guides circulating on the Internet, we might as well be living on opposite ends of the galaxy, occasionally meeting through cyberspace to share our sad stories of loss. and dejection.
In a civilized and highly litigious society that is the first world, it is highly recommended to learn these signs, lest you find yourself in a database that forces you to put up a sign (as big as the signs of houses for sale) that point to everyone. community that you’re a scoundrel or something like that… that’s a database you don’t want your name on!
I’m digressing…
When a woman wants a man, no wild horse can chase her away, except for the slurred donkey who falls off the rocking chair at the bar while making lewd advances on her.
In no particular order, here are the traits women have whispered to me in a truth or dare discussion:
your dress code.
Since birth, men have always been fascinated by breasts, whether by intention, genetics, or design, we have a morbid fascination with breasts, and women know this and use it to their greatest advantage. A woman on the lookout will make sure that her cleavage is giving off red signals and when she senses some interest, she will do her best to accentuate her femininity in order to entice you to take a look at that bust.
The rest depends on how well you navigate those slopes… Talking to a woman while gawking at her cleavage is definitely not one of them. Yes, she’s aware that you know they’re there, but don’t make it blatantly obvious during a conversation with her that you have intentions with them…pretend they’re not there, even if it means wearing blinders under your eyes, and! chances are you are a tenth of the way up the ladder to his heart!
What fascinating creatures!
eye contact:
In sales, we are taught that the first 7 seconds are very crucial in creating compelling buy signals on a subject; 7 seconds!
WOW!
In terms of using your body language in seduction, this number is much lower and depends on your game. When he sets her site for the first time on a woman and she has him on hers too, what he does in those few seconds could be her life sentence! Nothing speaks louder than first impressions, so whatever your calling in life, try to create unforgettable and stunning first impressions with anyone you meet.
This does not mean that one should act like a clown or wave hands in a mating ritual to get votes.
All it means is that the goal is to be unique and fresh, aim to trigger “buy” signals in women of all shapes and sizes, and smile as if you just saw an old flame you lost your virginity to or as if He had just won a million dollars!
This will pique their interest and make the encounter less awkward and forgettable…
You have broken the barrier of approach, now is not the time to yell… speak with the confidence of a born leader and offer a strong, firm but reassuring handshake.
Even if she didn’t expect that, she’ll be caught so off guard that she’ll have no choice but to reciprocate with a friendly smile, if not a huge one too!
Dress for success in a style that defines you without making you look awkward; Learn the essential basics of men’s grooming and wear a cologne that isn’t overpowering, and definitely not one from your local drugstore brand!
She will most likely melt right there, giving you the opportunity to pick her up and place her delicate, supple body on the park bench where you can cuddle her as you bring her back to life!
Sitting cross-legged.
The ancient sign that if she is sitting cross-legged in front of you and has her knees in front of you indicates intent on some subconscious level. Women love to sit cross-legged, but it’s in the details that one can discern the telltale signs that she’s flirting with you, like her chewing on her pen or pencil while throwing an occasional glance in your direction…hands bristling and shaking her hair. here and there, biting her lower lip and unconsciously smiling in your direction.
Need I say more here?
Touching:
Women are expressive and wear their emotions on a sleeve. If she continually touches your hands, shoulders, etc. like she’s about to make a point, or she briefly leans into you as she laughs, she probably wants you (her to come over) to take the bait and play along.
giggles
This is the part that men do not understand, even the most beautiful woman on planet Earth has flaws and is aware of some of them. Women spend countless hours grooming themselves to look presentable to us, so the next time you come across someone who is constantly laughing while you’re talking to her…or laughing because of the awkward nature of the situation (which you should be able to tell her I’m sure) or she’s laughing because she’s attracted to you and she’s nervous and excited at the same time and she’s lost all of her senses, which means now is the time to jump, really!
That seductive neck.
Love them, hate them, but blondes seem to have a knack for playing with their hair while exposing their cleavage. When a woman provocatively exposes her neck to you, be it a stranger or someone familiar, the message is clear, she is submitting to you and her mind is taking a walk with you on a wild coastal beach while she drinks piña coladas. .
I’m drifting, again!
look back
As much as one would like to learn all the non-verbal communication cues that show she loves you, a woman who risks looking over her shoulder as she walks past you, unless you smell bad or something, there is nothing subtle about it. insinuating in a way that she likes what she saw and, as if the first was not enough, you deserve a second, indifferent thing you!
There is a strong possibility here that if you turn around and head towards her, you might end up staring into each other’s eyes for some time.
Now, instead of reading this article and nodding your head in silent approval or acknowledgment, how about you put on your thinking cap and start paying attention to how loudly female bodies speak to you?
Food for thought!