We build our life moment by moment and the building blocks we use define "our excellence" gold "defeat us" through negative mental attitudes…same moment…different mindset.
You and only you have the choice to seize defining moments through empowering mindsets…or not.
It’s all in the moment.
The decisive moment of the election.
Negative or positive that you will choose.
Negative: from a mind that clouds you and deceives you with denial, disagreement or refusal to be optimistic, thus perceiving situations from a defeatist attitude that is based on moments that create disastrous results.
Positive: Unconditional responsibility of a mind that supports you to stay focused on "what you love" creating flow and a level of abundance every step of the way.
It is always your choice. It is always within your power to choose to define who you are.
Defining moments of choosing the positive over the negative allows you to realize that you create your reality through the choices you make…in the moment…of whatever choices you have made…in that moment…you are enough and you have enough.
Realize that moments change through choices… to "new moment" you can redefine and build again. It’s up to you to choose… different… if you want a different result.
Do you want tranquility, grace and abundance? "be the how" in which you build your life… or not? Your choice… and "only" your choice.
When we define EVERY moment through unconditional responsibility, excellence occurs because when we choose to be unconditionally responsible for our choices…not judging or blaming…blaming or shaming…just becoming aware by allowing what was, then choosing differently…this opens your intuition to automatically guide you to the most logical and supportive step to build your dream life more easily, through grace and to receive abundantly. It is what it is!
"moments" it can last a second or feel like an eternity in the same breath. always related to what "his" the focus is on… negative or positive. You can be real… without being negative. You can call a spade a spade…that’s the reality…but when you hate things and blame them as the cause of your misery…simply for being what they are…that’s when you stumble and fall into the endless trap of placing responsibility outside of what you’re in charge…your responses to life situations. You can choose.
When you are cheerful, the moments seem to pass quickly. When you are miserable, time seems to stop and hold you captive in the misery of your own making. Remember, one moment can define all the others and it is always your choice what you focus on…the negative or the positive of the experience. Let’s consider your strongest memories, positive or negative. Observe how your mind created the image that defined or established character, gave it meaning, marked the boundary(s) of what you clearly defined by your memory of a precise point in time, and how that memory affected your mood, either negatively or positively. The way they affected you was "your choice" of how you wanted to live the moment. It’s that easy. And within that simplicity you have the power to change your life… moment by moment.
Every day we experience thousands of individual moments. The breaths we take every day, hour, minute, second, microsecond that we are awake ensure our well-being or defeat our goal of how we want to live life. In some cases, a single encounter can change a life forever. Think of your own defining moments.
A moment can change us forever. These moments shape who we are and who we will become. We could allow ourselves to be defined by a word of encouragement from a colleague or, more likely, by a word that sounded like discouragement… but it pushed us to take a closer look at our choices.
We could define ourselves by a moment of victory or by not achieving what we said we wanted. We can also be defined by a moment where we listen to our intuition or one where we allow judgment to cloud the issue and ultimately be found faulty. How about the moment we commit to a goal or the moment we decide to go in another direction, each can be "bear" decisive moment. WE CAN CHOOSE how we respond…negative or positive. We can be defined by the moment we resolve to make our family’s life experience different from the one we grew up with or the moment we experience a positive illustration of "how to live… how to create" and decides to imitate him. Perhaps we are defined by the moment someone believes in us or even the moment we "honest" self-reflection that makes us change positively.
However, if we go back and forth, and choose to operate through two different mindsets, negative/positive will create moments full of confusion. Be conscious. Be aware of our defining moments, they make us who we are. Our path to be all we can be, our unique excellence is paved with these moments: defining positive moments that we create for others.
I remember asking a teacher who had deep admiration what he thought it would take for me to rise to the next level. With keen eyes and through his great wisdom he said; From what I see, you should probably focus. Focus more on performing where you currently are through excellence rather than worrying about your next step.
A defining moment for me and my forever journey towards being all I can be was being great in my uniqueness. This defining moment taught me that excellence is achieved "at the time", not in the future. Because all we have is the moment.
It defines you moment by moment. Each moment creates a powerful ripple effect that can be felt by everyone from miles away. Define someone’s moment today!