Women are luckier than men when it comes to enjoying sex. Before attempting to protest against this claim, think about the various ways a woman can be stimulated. Vaginal stimulation and nipple stimulation are just 2 of the many techniques that can arouse a woman.
Relationship of the clitoris to vaginal stimulation
When we talk about stimulating the vagina, the most important part to keep in mind is definitely the female clitoris. The clitoris is an ultrasensitive organ with a large number of nerves.
It looks like a fur hood placed exactly above the vulvar opening. If you make good use of your clitoris, you can never go wrong causing a harrowing orgasm in a woman.
There are a large number of women who can experience orgasm only by stimulating the clitoris and not by any other method. So now you have many reasons to become familiar with the clitoris while planning to perform effective vaginal stimulation.
Clitoral stimulation dose
Regardless of which method you are trying to stimulate the vagina, be sure to simultaneously stimulate the clitoris. The best method is to grasp or pinch the clitoris and gently rub it between your 2 fingers or rub it with the pressure of your index or middle finger.
Another method of stimulating the clitoris is by licking with the tongue or an even better technique is to use a pen to tease it.
What not to do when stimulating the clitoris
Many women have an extremely sensitive clitoris and may not tolerate any kind of pressure or stimulation in this area. It is better to use direct vaginal techniques in hypersensitive women.
Also, when you have already induced a devastating orgasm by stimulating the clitoris, it will become quite sensitive to touch or additional pressure. Therefore, the second or subsequent rounds of stimulation will require other methods.
So, in the two previous situations; stay away from the clitoris and leave it alone.
The pros of stimulating the vagina
The vagina can be stimulated using a wide variety of different products. You can use your finger, tongue, lips, a pen, a soft silk cloth and the inner part of your thigh, your penis or using any sex toy or accessory; for example, the vibrator or the dildo.
Always remember that the entire vaginal passage does not respond to stimulation in the same way. Despite the fact that the entire vaginal passage is massaged or rubbed during sexual intercourse; orgasm can only be achieved when the penis hits the G-spot.
What not to do with vaginal stimulation
The pressure you use to massage the vaginal passage should not be jerky and awkward movements; as such inconsistent movements will only incite discomfort and aversion to your foreplay.
So don’t rush, energetic, or too fast when trying to induce an orgasm by stimulating the vagina.