Do you feel like shouting “Enough is enough!”? If you know that you are treated like a doormat or a slave, it is time to put your foot down and end this type of treatment. You need to be respected in your relationship and here are some methods you can implement to make sure he treats you right.
Stop acting like a genie in a bottle
If you have been acting like a slave, giving in to all wants, wants, and needs, then it is no wonder that he has started treating you like one. Don’t let it pass you by. If he, too, goes out of his way to please you and grant your every wish, then it’s easy to respond in kind. Let him know that you are no longer going to behave like a slave.
Play “eye for an eye”
If he doesn’t respect you enough, then it’s time for him to realize how hurt you feel to make him feel the same way. Give him a dose of his own medicine and behave the same way. The only thing is that once he starts to resent your behavior, you should talk to him and let him know that you feel hurt and upset too when he behaves in the same way. He will make him realize how badly he has been treating you.
get out of it
Although this is a hard and difficult decision to make, sometimes it is the only way to make him sit up and realize that he has lost you because of the way he treats you. Leaving him will make him angry and upset at first, but soon he will have time to think about the relationship and the reason for your leaving, and he will change!
tell him clearly
This is a time when you shouldn’t keep your lips shut! If you take all the bullying, disrespect, and abuse without opening your mouth, then you are partly to blame. Let him know how much his behavior is hurting you, and also let him know that you won’t be able to take it anymore. This will shock him into realizing his mistake.
give you an ultimatum
Sometimes a man can do what he’s doing without really knowing how much it hurts the other person. If you feel like he’s ignoring the effect of his mistreatment on you, then it’s time to give him a rude awakening. Enlighten him on his bad behavior and let him know that you will leave him if he doesn’t stop.
Be loving and patient with him.
Sometimes, no matter how a man treats his woman, it is his woman’s reaction and love that makes the difference. You can intimidate him into changing his ways with your understanding and patience. His love can be stronger than his callousness and selfishness. Make him see the error of her ways and shame him into changing.
give less of your time
If your boyfriend isn’t treating you right, all you have to do is ignore him and start paying attention to someone else. That will make him feel good! Don’t let him treat you with disrespect. Shame him by being nice to him despite his attitude, but stop doing everything you did for him. Do not give him priority and you will regret his behavior.