So we’ve all seen guys do this in the movies, give a woman the time of her life, so she has an orgasm that never seems to stop. Well, the truth is that this is not just for celluloid heroes, simply put, these techniques are easy to use and anyone can give their woman the most incredible sexual experience.
The first realization is that it takes practice. The other thing is that you have to remember that sex is not just about a prolonged orgasm, it has other things as well and you have to take care of the emotional side as well to let it release enough to enjoy with you. Therefore, the atmosphere becomes very important. Arrange her place the way she likes it. That can mean candles, scents, oils, or a variety of things. Just make sure she’s relaxed and comfortable. It sounds trite, but trust me, getting you mentally in the right mindset is half the road.
The one thing that most men forget during foreplay is to use lubrication. Nothing ruins her condition more than not being wet enough when your fingers penetrate her. For those who don’t like the artificial feel of some of the more popular lubricants, natural oils are a great alternative.
At first you will concentrate on the most sensitive places, reserving the breasts and clitoris for later. Most women love the feeling of warm, oily hands rubbing their spine, so tracing the contours of your spine sensually may be a good place to start. An added benefit is that it puts her in a good position to talk dirty in her ear, stimulate her neck or even her perineum or anus if she likes to be touched.
Next, move on to the breasts, then the clitoris. While most people know about the clitoris, what many don’t know is just how powerful it is. It is possible to bring a woman to a squirting orgasm with clitoral stimulation alone. The key is to know your woman. Each woman varies in the way they should be touched. Some will want you to touch it directly, others will want you to touch the soft tissue around the clitoris. Explore different ways of touching her and see how she responds to her.
The woman can also control her arousal. If she has been doing Kegels, she will alternate between long contractions and shorter, faster contractions and this will allow you some control over her pleasure. As she gets more aroused, she pushes some well lubricated fingers or a sex toy inside her. She continues to stimulate her clitoris while internally stimulating her to the point where her vagina feels engorged and begins to contract. These two signs will tell you that she is definitely approaching a real, massive orgasm.
Now you need to move on to the G-spot. You want to constantly switch between clitoral and G-spot stimulation to keep turning her on more and more. Soon, the time between orgasmic waves will get smaller and smaller, until they begin to build on top of each other. This is the point where prolonging the orgasm really pays off and she has a continuous orgasm.
The best part is that each time you experience it, it becomes easier for you to re-experience it, and more intense when you have another. Soon you will be able to give her orgasms that will keep her coming back again and again.