Guys don’t realize that if they spend a lot of time stimulating breast foreplay, their woman may have a breast orgasm. Most men and women use some form of breast massage for foreplay and pleasure. Breast massage is used to firm the breasts and to check for any health problems, it can also be used for sexual arousal. Many men forget to pay close attention to the chest during sex.
Orgasms with breast massage, while common for some women, have not received much attention in books or magazines. Studies have shown that massaging the female breasts will increase the change of a woman having an orgasm.
The breast is the positive pole of a woman’s sexuality. The positive pole of a man is his penis. The key in foreplay is to stimulate a woman’s positive pole so that her heart opens. Then she will be open so that her negative pole, which is her vulva, gets wet.
Men rush to the vulva without spending enough time for a woman to get really aroused. Studies show this takes 20 minutes. Women have erectile tissue around the vulva that fills with blood. This takes at least 20 minutes.
Most women NEVER get fully aroused.
Most men make love in less than 15 minutes. This means that your lover is never fully aroused EVER! Men then wonder why their partner refuses sex after a year or so. Then the man discovers that she is having an affair with a man who really takes time with her.
SEX KEY: Make foreplay last 30 minutes!
Adding a breast massage is a wonderful way to turn a woman on. I suggest not starting with this area. Start in the less hot areas of her lover’s body, such as kissing and caressing her all over. The neck is a highly erotic area for most women. Kissing fingers and toes is an area that most men miss.
How to start a breast massage
One way to start the massage is to simply place the palm of your hand on the heart area. Just hold on and let the warmth of your hand stimulate your lover.
When a woman doesn’t have a lover, she can have a breast massage orgasm in the privacy of her own home. One can start by gently pressing her breast from the inside of the nipple to the outside. The pressure should not be fast or strong. Be very sensual and gentle. Touch yourself for pleasure with slow, gentle strokes.
Breast massage stimulation strokes
One stroke that I love to do is a lifting action. I hold the chest with one hand and gently lift the chest. Sometimes I do this stroke for 5 minutes. Look into your lover’s eyes as you make this stroke. See if she can connect the heart energy through her eyes. Next, try to knead the breast from it. Then, for added pleasure, rub the breasts with the palm of your hand in a clockwise and anti-clockwise direction.
The use of massage oil can take the massage to a new level of sensuality and pleasure. Make sure you have warm massage oil.
A sensitive woman can have a breast massage orgasm in around 15 to 20 minutes of breast stimulation. Once she has had an orgasm, she will want you to penetrate her very much. Make sure you don’t come too fast. Many women can come over and over again. Most men stop too soon. Really make intercourse last 30 minutes or even hours. You will discover that if she does this, her lover will want much more sex each week, sometimes much more than she can handle.