Men have a way of letting women know their feelings through their body language and behavior. If your guy has been acting like he’s not interested in you in the least, he might as well be! Take a look at these tips. They will help you better understand this cold behavior of the boys!
They don’t want to seem too in love
Perhaps men feel that if they are too open about their feelings towards a woman, they seem like men who cannot control their feelings and they look silly. They have an image to protect and they will do nothing to spoil it!
He believes that wearing his heart on his sleeve would make him appear weak.
The fear of looking weak and vulnerable is very real to most alpha males and if your guy has a reputation to defend, he will hate to let his feelings be openly displayed. It will do its best to pretend otherwise just so it doesn’t look too open and easily “readable.”
They want the girls to chase them
Although many guys love a good chase, there are others who also think that it is very good for a girl to do all the chases. It makes you feel sexy, attractive, and “in demand.” This is the reason why he will pretend to be cold and distant so that she will think that he is even more attractive and unavailable and therefore worth pursuing.
They hate admitting they have feelings.
Men have this stupid but very real idea that they are not supposed to cry, be mellow and romantic in front of others and basically admit that they have feelings and emotions. Only women are “allowed” to cry openly and bare their souls to each and everyone. Therefore, there are many who will act as if they don’t care when in fact they do.
They think it will make her chase him harder.
Women are not the only people who believe in reverse psychology! Just as a woman can pretend that she doesn’t care to make him chase her even more, men also pretend they aren’t interested only to see her chase him like he’s the only eligible man around.
They want to be sure of their feelings first
Many men are wary of showing and admitting their feelings too soon. If he is unsure of your feelings for him, and is afraid of making a fool of himself by professing his love, he will wait until he is truly sure that you love him before committing himself and showing the world that he loves you.
They want to portray a strong and macho image
What is it about men that makes them want to pretend they don’t care at all? Perhaps it is an instinct to look strong, independent and macho! They feel that if they seem like the type of man who doesn’t hook up so easily, women will make them even more irresistible.